The woman in your life……

Posted by: achala


Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these
facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;

Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as
human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven’t, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that
gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who
love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family
name

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you
sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment
and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe
more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a
mother, a wife, even if she doesn’t want to; and is learning just like you
are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and
knows that you won’t like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns
faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men
at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is
willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational
jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won’t, simply
because you won’t like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like
yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her sometimes
and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows
in your entire house – your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most
importantly – your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this…

 

The woman in your life…… was last modified: September 11th, 2013 by achala
 

Blog Comments

  1. Prabhu

    This is complete pilfering. EU admin should remove this post. As from your previous article, it seems that you returned from US after finishing your studies. Now i have doubt on it. Did you complete your studies or expelled from school charging Plagiarism. Plagiarism is taken seriously in US Schools and you should better know. Try to write your own or quote if you need to copy from others.

  2. antiPlagiarism

    So, since we’ve established that this is an act of plagiarism, shouldn’t the EU people proceed to remove this post? Having a plagiarized post up here would reflect badly on EU as well!

  3. Anti-copy-paste

    Achala,
    you should quote everything you want to share, give the link you copied from Aneesh thought it was write by you. That’s the basic ethics. Aneesh praised you in his first comment and you quietly accepted that.

  4. Aneesh Lohani

    Plagiarism is really bad – an insult to the actual person who wrote this and the creative community here. Don’t copy others’ work and paste it here. Respect intellectual property rights, achala.

  5. Yestai Ho

    Another “copy” and “paste” by Achala. Thanks ACE. Admin – please remove this post. This should not tolereated around here.

    Yestai Ho

  6. Aneesh Lohani

    Enunciated realities women face – impressive write-up. Let’s hope this post will help most guys get the picture. In today’s world, we are all individuals before we are men and women.

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