Kantipur features women in IT: my subjective review

Posted by: Dovan Rai

Falgun 7, Anniversary of Kantipur daily , anniversary special supplementary issue with theme “New Nepal” , on the last page is an article on new age women in new jobs, women in IT.

As I read the article, I was caught in confusion: whether I should get glad for being featured as new spirit of woman or feel foolish for being used for sensational purpose.

I was confused:

Would the author have made similar description of physical attributes like length of hair and shade of lipstick had

Dovan been a guy not a girl?
(The writer gave me the explanation that he mentions such descriptions for male subjects too to make the article more personal. But, there is tendency of male reporters to describe the appearance and clothing of female subjects. Is it to make the article more vivid or are there other interests too?)

Were the lines from vagina Monologues in Kathmandu with real concern for women’s voice or just for sensational purpose?

Are conventional male writers fair, unprejudiced and compassionate enough while addressing women’s issues?

Though the author had asked permission to borrow the lines from my article, I had no idea that they will be appended in the article on “women in IT” .
Honestly, I was damn worried thinking how my 6th grade cousin and 69 years old grandpa would interpret reading the phrase “we should talk about ‘vagina’”. I was embarrassed not because I flinch on my beliefs but without proper context and sufficient explanations, the lines had great chance to get misinterpreted. But luckily, my family and relatives liked my poem and appreciated my views.

Also, I found the name joke worthless. Besides bad joke and some mistranslation (sexuality was translated as लैगिकता which should have been यौनिकता ; sex= लिङग and यौन and it as the latter one in my article), language and style were fine.
But writers should not only rely on their gift for words and focus on appeal. Responsible journalists of reputed magazine as Kantipur should be more resourceful. They should write with compassion for their subjects.

I must applaud the writer’s effort for bringing women’s issues in limelight. But let’s come up with sincerely serious articles and solid actions for “women’s plight and their fight”.

Original article
_____________________________________________________________

आमाले नसोचेका आईटीका केटी – दिनेश वाग्ले

नयाँ जमानाका केटीहरुले अघिल्ला पुस्ताले सोच्नसम्म नसक्ने नयाँ काम नयाँ ढंगमा गरिरहेका छन्

women_in_nepali_it_1.jpg

‘मिस्टर दोभान र्राई’ लेखिएका खामहरु पाउदा सुश्री दोभान र्राईलाई अनौठो लाग्न छाडिसक्यो । ‘मेरो विहेको निम्तो पाउनेहरुले समलिङ्गी विवाह भन्ठान्छन् होला,’ एउटा इन्टरनेट कुराकानीमा उनले भनिन्- ‘सानोमा नरमाइलो लाग्थ्यो, अहिले सामान्य ।’ लामो कपालभएकी, हल्का लिपस्टिक लगाउने र प्राय जिन्स पहिरिने २३ बर्षो दोभान निश्चयै केटी हुन् जसमा ‘फेमिनिजम’ (महिलावाद)को गहिरो प्रभाव छ । ‘किनकी हामी महिला अझै हाम्रो लैगिकताप्रति लाजमान्छौं, दुराचारी अंकलहरुको परिचय खुलाउन डराउछौं, दुर्व्यवहार गर्ने यात्रीको प्रतिवाद गर्न हिच्किचाउछौं, हिंस्रक पतीहरुबारे मौन रहन्छौं, हाम्रै शरिर र लैगिकताको सम्मान, रक्षा र उल्लास गर्न डराउछौं,’ केही महिना अगाडी राजधानीमा आयोजित ‘योनी मनोवाद’ नामको कार्यक्रम हेरेपछि दोभानले एउटा वेब र्साईटमा लेखेकी थिइन्- ‘हामीले (यसको) उत्सव मनाउनु पर्छ ।’ ‘मौनता तोड्न गरेको प्रयास’वापत आयोजकको प्रशंसा गर्दै युवतीले यसरी कुरा टुङ्ग्याएकी छिन्-

‘आजित भएर, क्रुद्ध भएर
मेरो मनमा बाधिएका मर्यादाका पराया साङ्ला
अनि मेरो पेवा शरिरमाथि तेर्सिएका लाजका ताल्चा
सबै तोडेर
मैले मेरो नयाँ परिचय बनाएको छु
निर्लज्ज, चरित्रहीन अनि स्वतन्त्र’

चिन्नुभयो दोभान र्राईलाई ? कविताबाहेक अंग्रेजी भाषाको त्यो लेख मुनी गर्मागर्मी बहस छ जसमा केशव नामका एकजना भन्छन्- ‘वाह दोभान, तिमी साच्चै उत्कृष्ट छौं । म तिम्रो साहसको कदर गर्छु । तिमी नयाँ जमानाकी महिलाकी आत्मा हौ- निर्लज्ज, चरित्रहीन अनि स्वतन्त्र ।’ केही व्यंग्यात्मक लाग्ने प्रतिक्रियामा केशवले दोभानको अर्को परिचय दिएका छन्- ‘स्पिरिट अफ न्यू एज उमन’ । आइओईबाट स्नातक गरेपछि १८ महिना अघि क्रिएटिभ इन्जिनियरिङ् थालेकी दोभान सफ्टवेयर इन्जिनियर हुन् जो एउटा अमेरिकी सूचना प्रविधि कम्पनीको फैलिदो काठमाडौं कार्यालयमा दैनिक १० घन्टा किबोर्डसँग विताउछिन् । ‘म गाउँबाट एसएलसी गरेर काठमाडौं आएकी,’ टिचिङ् हस्पिटलमा नर्सको करिअर पछि हालै नर्सिङ् क्याम्पसमा पढाउन थालेकी दोभानकी आमा ललिताले सम्झिइन्- ‘उतिबेला कम्प्युटर के टाइपर्राईटर पनि हत्तपत्त पाइन्थेनन् ।’ २०४१ सालको कुरा, एक बर्षगाडी दोभान जन्मेकी थिइन् । घर र माइतीमा पैसा माग्नु नपरोस भनेर ललिताले नर्सिङ् रोजेकी थिइन् र त्यतिबेला काम सजिलै पाइन्थ्यो । तर, ललितालाई थाहा छ, उनी र छोरीका पालामा आकाश जमिनको फरक छ, बीचमा कम्प्युटर छ, इन्टरनेट छ, जिन्स छ र कर्पोरेट संस्कृती छ ।

‘यो सूचनाको यूग हो,’ ‘नयाँ यूगकी केटी’ले भनिन्- ‘कृषि पछिको औद्योगिक यूगमा पूवाधारको चुनौती थियो । यसमा सीमा छैन । अमेरिकाको पुस्तकालयका किताव यहीबाट पढ्न सकिन्छ । अमेरिकी कम्पनी (र उतैका ग्राहक) का लागि यही बसेर काम गर्न सकिन्छ ।’ बोस्टनमा आधारित डीटू हकआई र्सर्भिसेजको विशालनगर कार्यालयमा त्यसरी कामगर्नेहरु मध्ये डेढ दर्जन इन्जिनियर केटी छन् जो वितेका केही महिना या बर्षा कलेज जिन्दगीबाट कर्पोरेट संसारमा छिरेका छन् । त्यो स्रक्रमणसँगै उनीहरुले ‘केटा मात्र किन ? केटी पनि सक्छन्’ भन्ने प्रमाणित गरेका छन् । ‘परम्परागतरुपमा धेरैजसो नीति निर्माता केटा नै हुन्छन्,’ आइओईमा स्नातक गरेपछि १८ महिना अगाडी काम थालेकी ‘जाभा डेभलपर’ स्मृती श्रेष्ठले भनिन्- ‘उनीहरु ‘केटीसँग चाहिनेजति बुद्धी हुन्छ र ?’ भन्ने गर्दथ्ये । (त्यस्तो) दृष्टिकोण बदलिइरहेको छ ।’(डीटूका इन्जिनियरिङ् निर्देशक राज ठकुरीले कम्पनीले कुनै पनि किसिमले लैङ्गिक भेद नगर्ने र कार्यरत केटीहरुले दक्षताका कारण काम पाएको बताए ।)

स्वागत छ, नयाँ नेपालको नयाँ अर्थतन्त्रमा जहाँ २० चानचुनका नयाँ जमानाका केटीहरु अघिल्लो पुस्ताले कल्पनासम्म नगरेको नयाँ काम गरिरहेका छन् । विहानै जस्तो घरबाट निस्कने, दिनभरी संसारको अर्को भागका ग्राहकका लागि कम्प्युटरमा काम गर्ने र साझ अबेला फर्किने यी केटीलाई त्यो सबै प्रकृयामा कुनै न कुनै बेला ‘आफू को हु’ र ‘कहा छु’ भन्ने वास्तविकताले पछ्याइरहन्छ । हेरक कुरामा पुरुषहरुको बोलावाला रहेको नेपाली समाजमा ‘नयाँ काम गर्ने नयाँ जमानाकी केटी’ हुन कहा सजिलो छ र ?

‘काम पश्चिमा शैलीको,’ कसमस कलेजबाट १७ महिना अघि स्नातक गरेपछि ‘सी प्लस प्लस’मा काम गर्ने सुप्रिया शाक्यले भनिन्- ‘गर्ने र बस्ने समाज पूर्वीया ।’ कामको प्रकृती अनुसार अफिस समय भन्दा बढी खट्नु पर्ने तर त्यसो गर्दा घरमा ‘छोरी किन ढिला आई’ भन्दै चिन्तित हुनेहरुलाई प्रष्टिकरण दिनुपर्ने र गलेको शरिरलाई पुनर्ताजगी गराउने मौका पनि नमिल्ने सुप्रिया र साथीहरुको अनुभव छ । ‘एक घन्टा ढिला हुने भयो भने घरमा फोन गर्नुपर्छ,’ ‘न्यू एज गर्ल’को औसत समश्यालाई उनले प्रस्तुत गरिन्- ‘यता म्यानेजरलाई कुरा बुझाउनु पर्छ । ढिलासम्म काम गर्दा थाकेपछि रिल्याक्स गर्न पाइयोस् न । केटाहरुचाहि काम सकिएपछि -अवेर साझमा) रमाइलो गर्न निस्कदा केही भनिदैन ।’ आइओईबाट स्नातक गरेपछि दुइ बर्षअघि ‘डट नेट’ मा सीप बढाएकी शैली गोर्खालीले साथीको भावनाको प्रतिध्वनी गरिन्- ‘काम गर्न थालेपछि केटी भएको थाहा पाए ।’ स्मृतीको दृष्टिकोण- ‘केटीहरुले आफूलाई एउटा निकै राम्रो ‘प्याकेज’कारुपमा हुर्काउनु (पर्ने बाध्यता छ) । आफूलाई राम्रोसँग प्रस्तुत गर्नु पर्यो, घरका काम सिक्नै पर्यो, राती घर पुग्दा छिमेकीले के भन्लान् भन्ने सोच्नै पर्यो । त्यो सबै कुराले ध्यान विकेन्द्रित हुन्छ (र काममा केटाहरुको जस्तो एकाग्रता नहुन सक्छ) । त्यसो हुदाँ एउटै तहको काममा केटीलाई केटाले उछिन्छन्, उनीहरुको एकमत थियो, केटीले भनेजस्तो व्यवसायिक सफलता पाउन सक्दिन ।

तुलनात्मकरुपमा नयाँ अर्थतन्त्र मानिने सूचना प्रविधिका महत्वपूर्ण कामहरुमा विश्वव्यापीरुपमै पुरुषहरुको बाहुल्य छ जसमा नेपाल अपवाद छैन । त्यसैले सफ्टवेयर इन्जिनियर भन्नेवित्तिकै धेरैको कल्पनामा कीबोर्डसँग संघर्षरत पुरुषको आकृती आउन सक्छ । एप्पलदेखि माइक्रोसफ्ट, गुगलदेखि यूटयूव, र मर्कन्टाइलदेखि वर्ल्ड लिङ्कसम्मका कम्पनी पुरुषले स्थापना र सञ्चालन गरेका हुन् । सिलिकन भ्यालीदेखि काठमाडौं भ्यालीसम्म आईसीटीमा पुरुषकै बहुमत । मोडलिङ् जस्ता अपवाद बाहेक प्राय सबै क्षेत्रमा केटीहरुले केटालाई पछ्याइरहेका छन् । ‘कुरालाई हेर्ने केटाहरुको दृष्टिकोण फरक हुन्छ,’ डीटू हकआइकी प्रबन्धक अन्जना श्रेष्ठले भनिन्- ‘दे आर मोर इन्टू रियल थिङग्स् (उनीहरु बढी वास्तविक कुरामा सामेल हुन्छन्) । हामीचाहि अमूर्तकुरा र भावनात्मकतामा बाच्छौं । दिमागी संरचना नै त्यस्तो लाग्छ ।’ त्यसैले, अन्जनाले भनिन्, सफ्टवेयर कोडिङ्को उपल्लो तहमा केटीहरुको कम उपस्थिती हुन्छ । उनीहरु आयोजना प्रबन्धन या अन्य पक्षमा बढी पाइन्छन् । कम्प्युटरका कुनैपनि क्षेत्रमा केटाभन्दा कम क्षमतावान भएको यी न्यूएज केटीहरुले के स्विकार्थे ! केटालाई प्राथमिकता दिने सामाजिक संरचनाविरुद्ध तीखा मत व्यक्तगर्ने सर्न्दर्भमा उनीहरु एक भए । ‘मनोबैज्ञानिकरुपमा चाहि त्यस्तो भएको होला,’ साढे पाच महिना अगाडी डट नेटमा काम थालेकी केयूकी स्नातक मिनाल कोइरालाले भनिन्- ‘केटीलाई जन्मेदेखि नै प्रतिबन्ध छन् । केटालाई खेल्न जा, स्कुल जा भनिन्छ । उनीहरु ठूला कुरा सोच्न सक्छन् । केटीहरु सानो सीमामा हुर्केका हुन्छन् ।’ केयूबाटै स्नातक गरेर तीन महिना अगाडी डेटा म्यानेजमेन्टमा काम थालेकी दिप्ती खनालले थपिन्- ‘केटालाई पहिलो प्रश्न ‘कहाँ पढेको’, दोस्रो ‘कहाँ काम गर्छ’ र तेस्रो ‘कुन तहमा’ सोधिन्छ । केटीलाई चाहि दोस्रोमै ‘विहे भयो?’ सोधिन्छ । तह के, कामकै बारे पनि सोधिन्न । केटीलाई काम भेट्टाउनु नै ठूलो कुरा भएको जस्तो हुनजान्छ ।’

उसो त सीडीमा ऐना हेरेर कपाल मिलाईरहेका केटीहरुको त्यो प्रख्यात तस्बिर इन्टरनेटमा धेरै ठाउमा भेट्टाइन्छ जसले उनीहरु ‘वास्तविकता’ भन्दा ‘भावनात्मकतामा’ बाँच्ने तर्कलाई र्समर्थन गर्छ । ‘के महिलाहरु कम्प्युटर विज्ञान जस्ता प्राविधिक कुरामा फरकढंगले ‘सोच्छन्’ ?’ युनिभर्सिटी अफ मेरिल्यान्डको वेब साइटमा लेखिएको छ- ‘यो रमाईलो जीवशास्त्रीय र समाजशास्त्रीय प्रश्न हो तर ‘हो’ या ‘होइन’ले कम्प्युटर विज्ञानमा महिलाहरुको कम प्रतिनिधित्व भएको तथ्यमा खासै प्रभाव पार्दैन ।’ -रमाइलो संयोग, कम्प्युटर र गणित जस्ता विषयमा सोच्ने क्षमता अपुग भएकाले केटीहरु महत्वपूर्ण पदमा पुग्न या बैज्ञानिक हुन सक्दैनन् भन्ने लरेन्स र्समर्सले गत बर्षराजिनामा दिएपछि खाली भएको हावार्ड विश्वविद्यालयको अध्यक्ष पदमा ३७१ बर्षे इतिहासमा पहिलोपटक गत साता ड्रिउ गिल्पिन फस्ट नियुक्त भएकी छिन् ।)

प्रतिनिधित्व कम भएपनि केटीहरुले कम्प्युटरको काम रमाइलो मान्दैनन भन्ने होइन । निश्चयै, नाफा-घाटामा चल्ने प्रतिस्पर्धी कर्पोरेट संसारको जिन्दगी ‘ह्या, जान्न आज त्यो सरको बोरिङ् क्लासमा’ भन्दै ‘बङ्क’ गरेजस्तो स्वतन्त्र कहाँ हुन्छ र ? केटीहरुले कुरा बुझेका छन्, फरक महशुस गरेका छन् । त्यसैले त भन्छन, काम गरेपछि केटी भएको महशुस गरे † अनेकौ पृष्ठभूमी र रंगका विरामी र विद्यार्थीसँग व्यवहार गर्ने ललिता र्राईलाई आफ्नी छोरीको जतिबेला पनि कम्प्युटर अगाडी बस्नु पर्ने काम ‘असामाजिक’ र ‘भावना नपोखिने’ लागेपनि दोभान र उनका साथीले काममा रमाइलो मानेको बताए । (अर्न्तक्रिया र भावना बुझ्न ललिताले वेब र्साईटमा प्रकाशित छोरीका लेख र कविता पढ्नै पर्ला । अहिलेलाई मिनालका कुरा सुनौ ।) ‘सफ्टवेयर निर्माणमा प्रत्येक दिन नयाँ चुनौती आउछन्,’ मिनालले भनिन्- ‘जसका समाधान फरक हुन्छन् ।’ दिप्तीले थपिन्- ‘चाडै नयाँ कुरा सिक्न पाइन्छ ।’ नयाँ युगका आत्माहरुले नयाँ जमानाको काममा नयाँ कुरा नसिके के नयाँ कुरा भयो र ? हैन त मिस्टर, आच्या, मिस दोभान र्राई ?

Kantipur features women in IT: my subjective review was last modified: September 11th, 2013 by Dovan Rai
 

Blog Comments

  1. dovan

    deepak adhikaarijee,
    there is different article in the link.

    I have however already read your article.
    I learnt a lot frm that artilce.

    ur’s was a 4-5 page article and was specifically focused on IT and wagle ji was trying to show new spirit of new women in new job as that was a special issue for ‘new nepal’.

    tara suruwaat dubaiko luga batai cha.
    this is a common style to make the writing personal and vivid..

    tara k huncha vannuna … normally guys here are so sexist that makes me cynical

    and journalism is also a sector where women are so underrepresented.
    for example.. these two women related issues are reported by men.. and my point is that women can be more compassionate and more sincere while writing on such issues.
    (feri maile ketale ktko baarema lekhnai hunna vaneko haina.. kt ko barema lekhna pani kt paryapta chainan po vaneko hai)

    when a foreigner writes about nepal problem,
    when a pahadi writes about madhesi problem
    when a brahmin writes about dalit problem

    when a story is told by other person, there are always chance for some misintepretation and space for prejudice.

    what i am trying to say is that there should be representation of women, janajatis, dalits , madhesi, the repressed and marginalised ones in each and every sector and fronts.

  2. Desperate

    This EU is only accessible to the handful of people who are literate and are near in urban areas.Unless women are educated never expect Nepal gonna get good women leader.Dovan instead of shouting in EU and working for some dollors at D2, better go to rural area and do some work to educate rural women who knows may some great leader gonna rise from there.May be you could become one of the great leaders.

      ”I strongly Agree. Dovan Rai, spend your potential in only that what you want to do in life, don’t get messed up with IT and other extremism issues.”

  3. MM

    I guess someone is getting extremly feminist or something like that.
    U know one thing, extremism is not good at all.
    U know why this war happening in this world it because of the extemist.
    I dont think so there would be peace and cooperation if there are enough women leader.
    You can review the history of India you will find the most voilent India during Indira gandi’s regime.
    If you are good in GK you will remember what happened in Amritsar and golden temple.Politics is a dirty game so no matter who plays it by a women or men the way of playing it is the same.
    Once you go into the power politics, your urge for power will give rise to violence and aggression.
    Another example is maoist women gurrilla, they were more voilent than their male counter part.
    They used baraberain way to kill the enemy by sliting the throat or cutting into pieces.
    This EU is only accessible to the handful of people who are literate and are near in urban areas.Unless women are educated never expect Nepal gonna get good women leader.Dovan instead of shouting in EU and working for some dollors at D2, better go to rural area and do some work to educate rural women who knows may some great leader gonna rise from there.May be you could become one of the great leaders.
    I guess posting your article on EU is just educating an educated people.
    Other things becomming a IT professional is not a big deal, one does not need extra talent to become an IT professional.
    Someone has portait women becoming IT professional as a heroic act as if they have been to the moon .
    sounds funny ….

  4. Desperate

    IT is all about brain, Come on show some piece of work that the world will count. No one is going to see who did that guy or gal, Actually the world will be affected only by your work!

    Simple example, I google daily for theories and concept i m stuck in, If i found the good one, I appreciate the person, but never care if that’s man did or woman. I only appreciate the person’s idea.

    Every body knows this and still waste our precious brain processing time in debate of gender.Come on guys, lets look far ahead of it and Show up some new logic, concept or piece of art, just any thing new.

    If you are working in IT, you are working together/competing with all the IT people over the world. And in most of overall world, specially through the window of IT offices, every where just what you did counts, not who you are!!

    If still some people think that they should raise this issue, In my belief they are far lagging of time, Come on wake up and run fast!!

  5. twogirlswithWoolenShawls

    AMBIKA did not find this:There ARE TWO GIRLS: WEARING WOOLEN SHAWLS IN FULL SUNLIGHT AND THAT TOO NOT SUITABLE, SO THEY ARE MODERN IT GIRLS, like SHAWL WITH OLD FASHIONED KURTA SURWAL/SALWAR:SO>>wow, amaile tyo photo ramrari niyalen,euta moro le maathi ramro photo bhanera taarif gareko le. OTHERS HAVE COVERED TO NECK EXCEPT ONE to show modern ITism. Except the Neck Uncensored women at Back whose Leftback portion HAIR flying, others have their Hairs preetily TIED UP or COMBED. SHOES DO NOT Look preety Fancied though but cosy. One has So large Dimple that her Eyes are almost closed.

  6. pawan

    दोभन, म पनि दुई चार लोग्ने राख्छु चाहि न भन्नु होला नि।

  7. pawanfan

    Bret, Dove is Right/totally Correct as Nepalese Mass/kantipur Readers looks at Such Supplement with Cheap eyes displaying inside story of sneaking Women Models/Artists/Singers/..and like, but not the best IT Experts making Modern Nepal with new values,culture, religion, and society. If you look at other companies, the IT Women even fear talking about love, romance, let alone be sexuality, and the Womenhood.

  8. pawanfan

    pawan, you are right. tehi bhara ma liberal religion accept gardaichhu jasle polygamy promote garos. MSN le Polygamy feature allow garya hunale sajilo bhaako jastai, hami pani nariharulaai promote garna yo step chaalnai parchha.
    Dovanko Company ma pani sabai Women laai Chhuttai Company kholdyoys no Males, ra it would be an example with all, including BlackCat female BodyGuards. Again, they will not touch anything that has passed through Males in Airport, or Customs, or, anywhere. They will even buy mars and go there to reside by riding in Space Ship built only by Females. They should demand after opening Women Forum that they need a separate federal State where only Women can live and rule, to set an example to the World. The Women must be such that they should not have been born with male cells, only Female cells.

  9. pawanfan

    pawan, you are right. tehi bhara ma liberal religion accept gardaichhu jasle polygamy promote garos. MSN le Polygamy feature allow garya hunale sajilo bhaako jastai, hami pani nariharulaai promote garna yo step chaalnai parchha.
    Dovanko Company ma pani sabai Women laai Chhuttai Company kholdyoys no Males, ra it would be an example with all, including BlackCat female BodyGuards. Again, they will not touch anything that has passed through Males in Airport, or Customs, or, anywhere. They will even buy mars and go there to reside by riding in Space Ship built only by Females. they should demand opening Women Forum that they need a separate federal State where only Women can live and rule, to set an examplem to the World.

  10. pawan

    Doven: “…world will be a better place with more female…”

    हो, संसार पक्कै राम्रो हुने छ र मेरो संसार पनि। अब तीन चार जना वाइफ राख््नु पर्ला अनि लाइफ कलह र भय मुक्त होला। बुडापाकाहरु त्यै भएर तीन चार जना स्वास्नी राख्थे होला, कस्तो शान्त र सुन्दर होला है लाइफ।

  11. Anti-bret

    Bret, Don’t you think it’s good idea when a high-tech Company named in the magazine should allow to broadcast Sensational/Sexual/sensual things rather than technical things?????Why you worry then? Have you ever seen any technical things posted here on this blog, other than the bikes Pedal and the technoCrat’s “Memories of Days Past”? All other are emotions and morales,politics, and culture,Poems, and like that like any other blogs. Have seen any patent from any Hi-tech individual being presented here for discussion like Hyperthreading CPU Model, or Running Mac/Windows on same Chip? have they ever sought solution thru magazines or blog to seek a solution on how to make Windows/Linux Operating System totally bug free by tweaking into the System?Nope.So Far so good.

  12. Ambika

    Dovan,
    How much unbelievable talent you have,
    Awesome work, Really nice articles whatever u have posted so far, keep it up.

  13. lpk

    Ok Author, thanks for better clarification.I have a son but lovingly,admiringly call Chhoorri(Daughter)due regard to feminism. The girl friend truly told me. If I have to give my own view I can put it bluntly among the civilized bloggers of everestuncensored without any trepidation fear and self downgradement.It is the place to fight mentally, a war between brains. I have proof too as she exists although I cannot name her or reveal her identity, but may tell you personally if you need that another woman is different from you.She already has more than three children, and is a little-bit conservative. When millions read your story with other gals, do you think you do not have had 1 lakh Cursers who despise you for your voice? It is not like one blogger above who threatens people to break their legs because somebody opposes his likes. Even if 1 lakh out of millions do not like you they won’t tell that curse you, or threaten you with life, unless they fall into somewhere in secterian radical factions. There are many sites beloved by females where rotten is the word but, it does not matter. Let others scold you as much as possible in any way, only then you reach somewhere and you have some identity. Finally, if somebody tries to threaten anybody for thoughts, that is uncivilized, conservative, and indulgent, which is against modern liberalized globalized and computerized world where there is no distinction, no hatred and fear. You can find best leadership in Srilanka where Mother Daughter became Presidents despite too much of violence there. Madeliene Albright is Super Women, and so is Parijaat in Nepal.

  14. dovan

    Lpkjee,

    Thanks for your enthusiasm. The writer is the photographer himself.

    She said,”You guys just read such sites which talk on women. you have no other jobs?”.

    Saachai vannus ta, yo view tapaiko one of the many girlfriends ko ki aafnai ;)
    Anyway, I was so surprised to hear this comment from your friend

    There are so few female bloggers and so few articles written on women.

    I have altogether posted 3 articles on women among my 20 posts so far.
    But not my articles on arts and maths, but these three get the most hits and most comments.

    Not only women are regarded hot but ‘Feminism’ is also one of the hottest discourses nowadays. Please don’t think that this discourse on feminism is just about women (Is not your life and happiness dependent upon the lives and happiness of your mother, wife, daughter??), but this is in fact about the whole humanity, beliefs, culture, and power structure too.

    The traditional masculine concept of power: violence and aggression is changing to feminine traits like tolerance and co-operation.

    Trust me, this world will be a better place with more female leaders.

  15. lpk

    Dovan, I was kruddha(angry) with her/you for not letting us know about it when the Interview was published in the 25 million reader’s (Nepal/India/thailand/Singapore/UK…)choice.Later it was promised that some publicity for our frens can be expected. I am happy for the best picture/the Pose that was presented. Can you name the photographer? Provide the Source, which kantipur is not used to like Source : AP alongside the picture somewhere so legality issues are bypassed. You may also Put the screenshot of that Day’s Kantipur As it is: with actual logo, Date, place in Page,page number, in smaller view on right space of the existing photo. Let us start real journalism.
    I talked with one of my girl friends about this site and asked her to judge it. She said,”You guys just read such sites which talk on women. you have no other jobs?”. You are a lady and she is a women. No Difference. Show me the light.
    If possible show me the original copy too so I can read with the Paper.

  16. anti-anti-yastai ho

    see how silly some ppl can get… the article criticizes ppl for getting hung up on her vagina monlogues article even when the topic is different.. and here’s a long innane post that does the exact f***ing same thing.. the deal is whenever a woman says something it isn’t what is being said that is important but the fact that a woman said it.

    and before revolutions start, it is essential to change the discourse. thus, debates and discussion precede revolutions. am sure, anti-yastai ho, that u are too dumb to understand that, but nevertheless, keep up with ur sexist mentality and cheap loud talk, and u may be protected inside of ur office, the streets are a different matter.

  17. pawan

    This Wagle guy is a half-crooked, confused and unashamed commie journalist from Kantipur who hosts a blog site and preach bloggers communism and maoism.

  18. anti-yestaiho

    yestai ho, don’t you think gals do not talk/think/want/read/write other things than like dovan’s characterization of her sensuality in bodily things? you have become a victim as well and you may have such feminine tendency in you. Talk about improving your skills, knowledge, wealth, country status, social economy, dirt cleaning, participation, respect, goodness, positive trends, self-improvement, and many more. Reading, Writing, Talking about those internal organs, women’s weaknesses due to these is just absured topic to follow and Dovan could have become another mother teresa or Florence nightingale, or, Hillary Clinton, or, even J.K.Rowlings by now if she wanted to do something for the world,or, real womenhood. Crying for mere Organs, telling unfair males in loud voices is not going to change the world. If She really loves her organs she should raise above her petty things and contribute good outputs, not articles, verbose sharp tongues, but something handy that can change things practically. You can be a supporter of her, be a part of her team so she can feel you as another equal fighter for her noble cause, and do something.Just Writing and Crying for same thing in different forms will change nothing.Better, give dovan some weapon with which she can initiatea maoist like war against men. Why Not? Madheshi Forum is using innovative arrows against hilly people’s regression and the Tribal Forum is waging a new war in Nepal. Why shouldn’t she? We will pray her like Pampha Bhusal or Hisila Yemi, the Women leaders from maoists side. I am a woman too and can feel Dovan’s pulses as I have been too close with her since a few years back when she was a revolutionary Feminist student. Till now, the greatest women personalities have not led by talking like dovan’s internal organs as if I or others do not have any to talk about, but by surpassing the whole human race. It will not be long before we will read in this blog that she insured her Feminity within her to be protected for centuries, so, chauhanist males, their egos are destroyed for ever.

  19. Yestai Ho

    Dovan just commented the article published somewhere else. Comment is original. I beleive – this article shoudl remain posted. Good job Dovan. I enjoyed reading.

    Go Dovan go!!!

  20. postedelsewhere

    bichara hamro ekjana saathi ko love/friendship bhanne article chhain Admin le hatayo already posted bhanera. AAfno linga ra youn ko prachaar garna chhain jaha posted bhaako bhaa ni hune. Admin ko bhedvaav , alikati male laaj lagau na.

Post Your Comments:

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *